THE MASTERMIND BEHIND NATURE knows why women do not want to have sex. He must know why He provided women low level of a substance needed to fuel sex drive: Testosterone. Without significant quantities of it, muscles, beards, body hair, stamina, and sex drive do not develop. Should women want to have sex as men do, a catastrophic overpopulation of humans on earth would have taken place millenniums ago.
Moreover, since recorded history, all societies systematically imposed strict set of conditions as well as exerted heavy pressures on all the women who are unmarried. Then, there are understandable reasons why women neither want to have sex nor they feel like having sex; and once married, they develop well-thought-out excuses to elude sex.
It is because of a permanently irreversible physiology imposed by nature and mandated by societies in the case of single women. It should not be ignored the palpable, noticeable, and perceptibly high percentage of women perceiving sex as aggressive and degrading when it is performed for the sake of it.
So, why do women engage in liaison with a man expected
to manifest what his nature-given physiology mandates
and his deeply embedded instincts command him to ?
A woman seeks and scours the relationship with a man because she wants to be loved, and cared for. Should she feel that she is truthfully and sincerely loved by the man who honestly and genuinely venerates love he feels for her in romantic ways ~but he is not expecting sex in retribution~ she may "accept" sex some time in the future with that man.
Psychology considers women to possess "short-term memory" when it comes to matters of love. It is because women necessitate to be often and repeatedly reassured ~in a myriad of ways~ that the Blue Prince in her life remains in love with her, and that he loyally cares for her in more ways than one not expecting sex in retribution for his paying tribute in romantic ways to feelings that elevate her.
It may then be construed that exalting feeling of love is not about women wanting or not to have sex. It is about a man and a woman clothing themselves in such a perfect bond: Love. At the end of a sincere, heart-felt, and untainted celebration of love, they may be rewarded with a sacred gift. It is an act meant to seal a faultless and perfect bond.
She is a woman and has reasons why to not want to have sex. She may accept it, however, but only after a Blue Prince with uncontaminated intents unveils romanticism and love that glorifies, honors, and dignifies her.
It is highly possible that the Mastermind behind Mother Nature
provided each woman with the wisdom to know who has qualities
of a 'Blue Prince' willing to glorify, to honor, and to dignify her
before she rewards him with a gift that only a woman can offer.
A man with untarnished, unpolluted heart is likely to express his feelings in romantic ways to a wonderful being known as 'a woman'. After all, she is the one who needs to be loved and cared for like a romantic man of refined human qualities knows how.
What remains is for her to resolve, and she will when such moment comes to offer her Blue Prince a precious gift that unites, bonds, and seals love between a man and a woman.
let's not love with words or in tongue,
but with actions and in truth.
-- 1 john 3:18